What’s in your kit
Eight tools. The first three are the rules you must know cold — they decide when something is an emergency. The rest keep the daily partnership steady and tell you where your role begins and ends.
1 · The ART Adherence Rule
Know this coldAntiretroviral therapy (ART) keeps HIV undetectable, prevents transmission, and protects the immune system. It must be taken every single day — missed doses allow resistance to develop.
HIV ART RULE
Patient card2 · The OI Watch Rule
Know this coldWhen the immune system is suppressed (low CD4 count), opportunistic infections (OIs) become a risk. Most HIV patients on ART have strong immune systems — but watch for fever, persistent cough, weight loss, severe headache.
HIV OI RULE
Patient card3 · Other Red Flags — Emergencies
Know this coldBeyond the two red rules above, these situations also mean immediate help. When in doubt, the home care plan handles ordinary days — these are not ordinary.
🔥 Severe persistent fever
Especially with low CD4 — ED.
ED today🧠 Severe headache + stiff neck
Could be meningitis — ED.
ED now💨 Persistent cough + breath
Could be PCP pneumonia or TB. ED today.
ED today🤠 New weakness or vision change
Could be CNS opportunistic infection. ED.
ED today4 · The Contact Ladder
Fill in & printWhen something is wrong, you should not be deciding who to call in the moment — only which rung you are on. Fill in the names and numbers now, while things are calm.
You's HIV care plan
Daily ART, viral load + CD4 schedule, OI prophylaxis (if needed).
Action plan kept: ________________________HIV / infectious disease team
For ART changes, viral load issues, side effects, opportunistic infections.
Specialty team: ________________________Primary care provider
For routine care, vaccines (many critical for HIV), comorbidities.
Primary care: ________________________911 / Emergency Department
For severe infections, neurologic symptoms, severe fevers.
Preferred ED: ________________________5 · Daily ART Taken
Tap to logTap if ART was taken today. 100% adherence keeps the virus undetectable.
Goal: 100%. Missed doses raise resistance risk. Tell team about any missed doses.
6 · HIV ART Support
Daily routineModern ART is often one pill daily (Biktarvy, Dovato, Triumeq, others). Long-acting injectable options now exist (cabotegravir/rilpivirine every 1-2 months).
Long-acting options
Cabenuva injection every 1-2 months. Game-changer for adherence struggles. Ask if eligible.
Drug interactions
ART interacts with many medicines (statins, acid reducers, others). Tell every clinician.
PrEP for partners
HIV-negative partners can take PrEP to prevent transmission. Discuss with the team.
Cardiovascular risk
HIV patients have higher heart disease risk over time. BP, cholesterol, lifestyle matter.
7 · The ER Go-Bag
Pack once, check monthlyA crisis is not the time to gather paperwork. Pack a go-bag now and keep it by the door. Tap each item as you add it — your checklist saves on this device.
8 · Speak Up / Trust the Team Guide
You boundaryThe hardest skill in patienting is knowing when to act and when to hold back. A great patient is a reliable backup and a fierce advocate — without taking your own care away from them.
💬 Speak up when…
- A red-flag rule is met and a clinician is dismissing it — restate the rule and the home plan calmly and clearly.
- You are in the ED and your home plan is being ignored — ask for it to be looked at, and ask for a senior clinician if needed.
- You are about to be given a medicine or test that wasn’t in the plan — ask why, and ask about alternatives.
- Your symptoms are escalating between visits — call before it becomes an ER trip.
- You feel unheard or rushed — it’s OK to say "I need a minute to ask one more question."
🤝 Trust the team when…
- They have proposed a guideline-based treatment that fits your plan.
- You disagree from fear rather than from new information — pause, ask one question, listen.
- You are on a stable run that’s working — small adjustments often beat big changes.
- Your care partner’s instinct and the team’s recommendation agree — that’s a strong signal.
- You’ve done your part of the homework — logs, questions, honest history — and now it’s the team’s turn.